Do you prefer to write notes on paper or on an electronic device?

I do both. I have:

a ruled Moleskine notebook

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and use Appigo’s ToDo app on my iPhone and ToDo online to have complete connectivity between my mobile device and computer.

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Favorite Concert Venue: Jones Beach Ampitheater, Wantagh, NY (Long Island)

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Jones Beach has an open outdoor venue so that when artists are performing on stage, you can see beyond them to the bay and the Atlantic Ocean. Sometimes, you might see boats sailing in the distance. When it’s a really hot, a cool breeze blows in and you can breath in the cool, salty air. As the sun sets, the blue sky changes into beautiful shades of red, orange, and purple before settling into a a dark indigo as the stage lights up the night. The last time I was there was for the Blink-182/No Doubt concert back in 2004. Didn’t seem that long ago but it was tons of fun and I loved every minute of it.

One of my first concerts was at Jones Beach. I’m not sure I remember my very first concert, but the one that stands out is Lilith Fair when I was 16. It was a concert that had the biggest impact on me: a celebration of women in music. Read more on my experience with Lilith Fair in “What Lilith has to do if it hopes to stay alive for next year…

List 5 things you love about your culture.

1. Speaking a language very few people are likely to understand.

2. Ethnicity comes from the first Black (Afro-based) country in the world that gained its independence.

3. The food.

4. The big family. I have choices when members some don’t like me.

5. The different worldview.

Culture

Q. List five things you love about your culture.

A.

1. Griot and Banane Pesée

2. Speaking a language most people who don’t live in Miami or Brooklyn can’t understand

3. Parents from a different country

4. Good, homemade food all the time growing up

5. Spicy food like pikliz or piman (spicy slaws)!

Because I’m unoriginal and unimaginative tonight…

Post A Day Topic #56 from The Daily Post: Today’s topic brought to you by Plinky:

What keeps you up at night? Everything.

Bonus: What helps you forget about what keeps you up at night? Beer.

5 High-Profile Women I Adore and Admire

Disclaimer: I recognize all of these women have significant flaws and foibles but for one reason or another, I have chosen to highlight the positive characteristics about each woman that inspires me.

1. Tina Turner
Since I was a toddler uttering “Tina Turn-ner-ner,” I have always adored Ms. Turner’s sass and sultry raspy singing. When I grew older, I dragged my mother to the movie theater to see “What’s Love Got to Do with It” a dramatized version of Ms. Turner’s biography. I watched how she rose to fame and fortune alongside her drug-addled husband Ike, battled against him, and fought poverty as a result of leaving him only to emerge successful on her own yet again. Her sheer inner strength and optimism inspired me as a teenager and continues to inspire me now.

2. Madonna
Back in the early 80s when American Bandstand’s Dick Clark asked a young Madonna what she wanted to do, she declared, “I want to rule the world.” Indeed, Ms. Ciccone has done pretty much that. People debate her talent but no one can debate her shrewdness and clever marketing ability. (Lady Gaga watched a master at work here.) Madonna, now well into her 50s, has shown consistent dedication and discipline in evolving, not only as a fashion and pop music icon, but also as a woman with staying power. She may not enjoy all the success she once enjoyed in her prime but she’s managed to remain relevant—something very few of her peers have been able to successfully do.

3. Hillary Clinton
During the early 90s, I remember Ms. Clinton taking tons of heat for trying to introduce universal health care legislation to Congress because it wasn’t what a First Lady was “supposed” to do. Republicans may have hated her from that point on, but the former First Lady garnered my respect ever since. I admired Ms. Clinton’s ability to use her high-profile position to lobby for health care reform and watched her become vilified and forced into the traditional meek First Lady role. During my brief internship, I was able to see what the former New York Senator did first-hand as she brought grants for firefighters and policemen to various towns in the state of New York (including my hometown!), fought to keep military bases open so that cities wouldn’t be shut down and hundreds of people would be put out of work, and championed hard for SCHIP (State Children’s Health Insurance Program). As Secretary of State, Ms. Clinton has represented America with a gentle yet firm hand, handling her mistakes with the grace befitting a former First Lady. Her strength and dedication to serve Americans inspires me again and again.

4. Michelle Obama
I’ll admit, I had my doubts about Barack Obama’s wife as she stood by his side on the campaign trail before he was elected president but she has pleasantly surprised me by stepping into her role as First Lady with grace and ease I never saw before. She has become a tireless champion in getting America to eat healthier, advocating for communities to eat fresh and eat local by way of connection with local farmers, and encouraging children to exercise more and eat right in the battle against obesity. While I don’t always agree with her stance on everything, she is encouraging Black communities to take ownership of their lives and their future—and I cannot begrudge that at all.

5. Tyra Banks
Ms. Banks has navigated the modeling arena with a down-to-earth attitude, incredible business savvy, and bright enthusiasm in a world that can be bleak with drugs and eating disorders. Her success is a generational mirror reflecting that of another female pioneer, Oprah Winfrey. Ms. Banks’s talk show, Tyra, has proven that she is not a dumb, air-headed woman—that she is, in fact, just like the rest of us with body insecurities, crazy moments, and tons of generosity. She has been beaten down for her fluctuating weight by tabloids and fought back by encouraging women to embrace their bodies and develop a positive body image.

Between First and Third

Red, white, and blue
Colors of my former country
Pump through my veins
Allegiance to my new country

Independence from oppression
Freedom from depression
Bound to liberty
Shackled to opportunity

Legal immigrant
Flag unfurled
Now American citizen
Flag waving

Paradise lost
House abandoned
Currency gained
Home retained

Little life
Tiny cries
Never knowing
Stench of death

Baby powder scent
Not burning bodies
Bustling industry
Not stagnant water

First-world comforts
With third-world mind
First-world country
Leaves third world behind

God bless America
Land I now love
Hope for prosperity
Through tenacity

There’s a place for my novel…

… somewhere. But who will publish it? And who will read it?

The main protagonist is a 16-year-old girl. There’s no romance. Lots of conflict. I’m not Karen Kingsbury or Janette Oke and I’ll never be.

Maybe I should be if I’d like to get paid. Or maybe I should find another day job. In my idealistic world, I hope to impact someone’s life in getting this novel published. I’m not sure how that will happen. Or if it will. But I’d like for it to be someone unrelated to me.